Today we’re visiting with Valerie Miller.
I am an artist and newish gardener. Three years ago I was a work-from-home artist and homeschool mom with three little boys (one, four, and seven years old) who spent more time crying than probably anything else. I felt trapped and guilty because I had beautiful healthy children I love more than anything but who I felt were suffocating me. (I no longer feel this way, but I did at the time!)
So in the spring of 2020 I started growing flowers with my kiddos and became obsessed with growing things. Slowly the flowers and soil have healed me and my issues, and I am happy, free, joyful, and a good mom.
And when three hard things came along—COVID shutdowns and then two big fires in less than a year at my business, art studio, and historical family building (we lived on the third floor for years until the third boy came along and we needed outside space)—I was already on my way to being able to handle stress with a clearer head. Gardening and the flowers had brought me back to myself. So while my husband dealt with fire cleanup for many, many months (twice), I ran to the flowers with the kids in tow.
After what I’ve just gone through, I’m turning my focus to spread as much joy as I can through flowers, gardening, and flower art—and letting others know that beauty and fresh air and flowers and digging in the dirt can help us tackle all sorts of hard things (even if we don’t want to tackle them).
Valerie with a stunning mass of flowers from the garden
This wagon load of flowers from the farm includes two buckets full of sunflowers (Helianthus annuus, annual) and one full of zinnias (Zinnia elegans, annual).
Another wagon full of blooms, along with a four-legged helper
It’s hard to beat dahlias (Dahlia × variabilis, Zones 8–10 or as a tender bulb). I love the warm peach color of this one.
Life as a mother of three running a flower farm—it looks like there is always a lot going on!
An incredible arrangement of flowers, all in soft, romantic shades
An example of the beautiful art Valerie creates, inspired by her flowers
If you want to see more from Valerie, check out her Instagram: @steelcowlavenderfarm
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