Another subtle way your husband may be asking for help is by having a shorter fuse with you, the kids, and others close to him. I know, I know. When this happens, sometimes the last thing you may want to do is offer the help they need. But this is something you especially want to pay attention to if this behavior is uncharacteristic for him. While it may be difficult to extend grace to your spouse when he’s not keeping his cool, try to remember his attitude is more than likely a sign that something deeper is going on. He may not even realize his demeanor has changed.
When you notice a loss of patience or new edginess in your husband, ask him if there’s something that’s bothering him or something he needs help with. Sometimes a simple conversation can help relieve tension. Often, we’re so busy we forget to take the time to communicate with those who are closest to us.
While we all go through trials where our patience is tested, it’s also important to remember patience is a fruit of the Spirit. As we spend time with God and make him a priority, he pours this gift into us.
“But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!” Galatians 5:22-23 NLT
**Note: a loss of patience or a short fuse is something couples can work through, but it is also important to remember verbal and physical abuse is not something God asks us to endure. If you’re dealing with this type of situation, seek professional help immediately.
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